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So my Ace is moving away, the fabulous JAC. I'm super hype for her and all that this new opportunity means. I still havent really thought much about the fact that she won't be living down the street anymore. In fact this post is the most i've contemplated that future...this post therefore might be short :).

This was the weekend of her party-it was fun. The right mix of ppl were there and hilarity ensued. By far my favorite part was watching the men politic and goof off, there is just something so heartwarming to me about watching these men enjoy black male camaraderie...these successful, ambitious, money having, grown men being, responsibility taking care of, fresh to death dressed, silly men. Wonderful.
I thought the couples were a beautiful thing as well. All that good black love. I aspire to that one day.

What else....a couple situations that I thought might cause me stress that evening didn't materialize in the way I thought they would so I was happy about that. I was irritated from time to time but overall I let the irritants roll off.
I'm dreading going to work tomorrow.

The rest of the week is full of various farewells for JAC. Makes me think of how segmented our lives are...the party ppl over here, the religious ppl over there, work ppl elsewhere...funny. I just hope she doesn't feel spread too thin. Moving is a busy time and while trying to see everyone before leaving is noble and kind (inkeeping with her normal personality) sometimes limits have to be recognized. But if she's in, i'm in.

I'm happy we have the cruise coming up. otherwise this move might be more problematic for me :) I know that I'll be seeing her in about a month so there is no need to think in terms of missing her or, or being sad...i'm going to be seeing/partying/laughing/relaxing/catching up with her in like 5 minutes, what is there to be sad about? Plus the other J will be here in a week or two, so the transition won't be too hard. Awww my girls. My east coast girls.

For JAC I pray that she gets the grasp on her relationship with God that she wants, I pray for her and baby boi-who each time I see them solidifies for me the for-realness of their love-, I pray she won't be too cold, that she'll make good, wholesome new friends, and rekindles old quality friendships (and leaves those nonsense, crazy, dont call that person ever again friendships alone :) lol), that she'll love her new job, that i'll get to somehow benefit from whatever perks she might have :), and that I will be bridesmaid dress ready for when she moves back. Yeah that's assuming a lot, but hey its what I do...